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Jul. 25th, 2013 01:22 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
http://zodiacsociety.tumblr.com/post/41990017973>Taurus and inner emotional life
http://zodiacsociety.tumblr.com/post/42005636202>Leo and inner emotional life
http://zodiacsociety.tumblr.com/post/44032139664>Negative Taurus traits
http://zodiacsociety.tumblr.com/post/44039471380 >Negative Leo traits
http://zodiacsociety.tumblr.com/post/29650982214>Angry Taurus
http://zodiacsociety.tumblr.com/post/29656978651 >Angry Leo
Sensing a horrible pattern emerging. .. Two people who won't budge. How does either get the other to crack? If their sexual dynamic bleeds into the rest of their lives, he might feel like it's his job to give in more often than it is hers but it would leave him frustrated if the issue in question was something he felt really strongly about.
But this is basically a recipe for a lot of awful fighting.
How to fix an argument with a Taurus Give them space to consider things and get over it.
How to fix an argument with a Leo Address it immediately, so they don't let it get big and exaggerated in their heads.
Oh no...ouch.
He wants to explain his pov, she wants him to shut up and let her think. He interprets "leave me alone to calm down" as "I am punishing you by cutting off communication" and the longer she takes to think, the more freaked out he gets. If she was feeling cruel, she could totally control him with that, so no matter whose fault it was, he's the one who ends up begging to apologize. Hey, that could happen unintentionally, let's be honest.
And if she was at fault and he was the angry one, she could feel nervous and upset by what she interprets as relentless badgering/overreacting while she's trying to get her mind sorted out.